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Sunday, May 31, 2009

Kevin Jonas gay?


So I was watching the Jonas Brothers new TV show with my kids and it was immediately obvious to me that Kevin Jonas is probably gay. He hasn't come out. I feel really bad that he has to hide it, for whomever... his producers, his fans, his family... I can only guess. But there has got to be tons of pressure for him to be hetero because so many young girls need him to be straight. I mean, that's the point of a boy band. A safe way for a girl to practice liking a boy. He should totally talk to Lance Bass, the guy from N'Sync who came out. He would understand the pressure.

UPDATE: So now he's engaged. hmmm. That increases the odds that I'm wrong. But also increases the awfulness of this situation if I'm right- that he'd take this charade to the next level. If they're still married in two years than I'll come back to this post and say I was wrong. But until then, I'll just wait to see...

16 Comments:

  • At 6:09 PM, Blogger Kassidy said…

    he has a girlfriend...........

     
  • At 6:56 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    OMJ tell that b*tch that Kevin's not gay come on!!!! he has girlfriend and her name is Danielle Deleasa you can search it if u dont believe me and hes NOT gay stop saying bullshit about him.

     
  • At 11:05 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Hes not gay. He has a girlfriend.

     
  • At 12:13 AM, Anonymous Amanda Chase said…

    i never looked at it that way. that is so sad.

     
  • At 5:44 PM, Blogger Deena said…

    I saw pix of the girl-friend. I'm thinking she's part of his cover.

     
  • At 9:31 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    You are Christian right? You should pray for him, not feel sorry for him. If he is indeed gay.

     
  • At 3:39 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    despite the fact that most commenters are saying that he has a girlfriend so he can't be gay, I'd have to agree with you (the blogger, not the comments). I am not by any means saying he is or is not gay, but if he is gay I too feel sorry for the pressure that he would be under.

     
  • At 2:46 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Just because a guy has a girlfriend does not necessarily mean he isn't gay. The pressure of his stardom and the extreme Christian values the Jonas family holds would definitely be reason enough for him to want to conceal what could be his true orientation.

     
  • At 2:13 PM, Blogger Deena said…

    Yes, (to last anonymous poster)- the Christian family aspect makes me even more suspicious... This is total speculation but I was thinking... since the virginity pledge is so important to the Jonas brothers (and not being gay- I assume) what if he is wondering/hoping that getting married-and therefore- having sex- will cure him? Again... TOTAL speculation...

     
  • At 2:10 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    OKay first of all the bitch up the aasking if your christian needs to shut up. You dont need to pray if hes gay, so people need to quit assuming its by choice. You arnt gay so you dont know. Now on topic, dating a girl doesnt make him straight. I dated a girl to hide the fact I was gay, I even proposed, until my best friend talked some sense into me, SO I agree with you 100%, take this from a gay guy.

     
  • At 11:00 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    so yeah, now he's married, but I agree with you. It seemed immediately obvious to me from the first time that I saw him on TV that he is guy. But, people for generations have concealed their gayness and gotten married anyway, that's what "traditional values" means. I hope he will be happy in the long run.

     
  • At 6:04 PM, Anonymous kirkkitsch said…

    - Truman Capote
    -Oscar WIlde
    - Rock Hudson
    All gay, all "married" at some point. Trust me, "married" does not end the conversation.

    Either way, who cares, but let's be realistic about this.

     
  • At 5:53 AM, Blogger McMike said…

    No, you're 100% right. I just saw them introduce Lady Antebellum at the Grammy's and Kevin (the last one to speak) is 100% gay. Reports came out in October about one of them being gay and 2 months later Kevin is getting married. It's a pretty sad statement on just how homophobic and bigoted America is when, IMHO it's obvious, the Jonas camp freaked and flipped and forced him to marry. Besides, are people really that gullible to think just because a guy marries a girl he can't be gay. I mean, look at Tom Cruise...

     
  • At 7:55 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    The "he has a girlfriend" and "he's engaged/married" comments hold little water. Personal example: I had girlfriends up until I was about 18. Then the same sex was catching my eye more and more (since 8th grade). Now I have a boyfriend of 3+ yrs. Gay guys will do what they can to put up a straight front when in situations like that of the Jonas.

     
  • At 1:17 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Totally gay. He's married, but doesn't sleep with his wife because he snores...um yeah, right. How many fully-charged heterosexual males do you know of that would do this? None that I know of.

    Case in point, my first husband did the same sort of thing, had headaches, stomach aches, just not in the mood, etc. Guess what? He was gay. The best thing he can do is to set his wife free, so she can find a man who really loves her and she won't be questioning herself and wondering what she's doing wrong.

     
  • At 9:41 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    Having a girlfriend doesn't make you straight... Innocent til proven guilty, BUT.. as a gay man myself... Who's masculine, I'd be a damn fool not have suspicions about Kevin Jonas, because gaydar is in fact REAL, and considering the controversy about the having a baby...A newly married Christian couple that has been married two years, claims to be a in love and financially stable are just going to have a child naturally as it would have been conceived based on their passion love and desire for each other which leads to sex. if I just got married and waited to have sex on top of that it would be a wonderful and beautiful thing to connect that way with someone that I've chosen to share my life with and the fear of not being a good enough parent would be null knowing I have the love of my life to share that with me. So... Maybe she doesn't want to have the gay guys baby because she's just a beard. It's no one's business but these speculation about his sexually come from a valid place and though he doesn't owe an explanation to anyone but those in his life, it is what it is, and people are free to speculate all they like.

     

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